When people ask me where to meet someone, the assumption is usually that the right location is the missing piece.

It’s nice to smile and have someone smile back. For no reason other than we’re two strangers doing the same thing and acknowledging each other’s existence for a second.

Are they flirting, too? Or are they just being friendly? Nice? Polite?

Most people think flirting is one thing: seductive, sexy, maybe a little bold.

But that’s only one style of flirting. And for many people, it’s the least natural.

Flirting isn’t a test you pass or fail. It’s a social skill. And like any skill, we all start out as bumbling beginners.

But… it still feels awkward / weird / uncomfortable.

Perhaps you, too, feel like flirting is something other people do, especially if it’s been a while since you last dated anyone.

Part of the problem was my definition.

Does dating ever leave you spiraling: stuck in your head, overthinking a text, or wondering what that look meant?

Maybe they were attentive over text and made plans regularly, but deeper conversations never really happened.

Unfortunately, it’s one of those things you often don’t notice until you’re doing more than your share — or feeling the strain when no one is.

Assumptions can break connections — whether in dating, friendships, or the workplace.

Discover the most common relationship myths and how to approach connections with curiosity and flexibility.

Expressing romantic interest can be nerve-wracking, but it doesn’t have to be!

This guide walks you through subtle and direct ways to show someone you’re interested while maintaining confidence, respecting boundaries, and handling rejection gracefully.