Flirting: A Quick-Start Guide
I’d like the suggest that flirting is not something you have to master — that’s like trying to go pro at golf when you’re barely able to mini-golf.
Instead, start where you are (say, “Level 1”) and work your way up (“Level 2”, then “Level 3” and so on).
Flirting: An Updated Definition
“Eh… I don’t and can’t flirt.”
That was me… up until a few years ago.
Perhaps you, too, feel like flirting is something other people do, especially if it’s been a while since you last dated anyone.
Part of the problem was my definition.
Attraction: What You Can and Can’t Control
Attraction isn’t something you can force — but you can improve your odds. This article breaks down what you can and can’t control in dating, and how small, intentional choices can help others see your best self.
Rejection: Why It Hurts and How to Recover
Dating rejection stings — whether it’s ghosting, a polite no, or that awkward fade-out after a first date. This article breaks down why rejection hits so hard, what it really means (and doesn’t), and how to recover without spiraling. Feel the sting, but don’t stay stuck in it.
On Emotional Awareness: The Foundation of Clarity in Dating and Relationships
Emotional awareness is the foundation for dating with clarity and confidence. In this article, you’ll learn why it matters, how to strengthen it, and a simple self-check you can use on your next date or conversation.
The A–Z of First Dates
First dates can be nerve-wracking — especially if you haven’t had one in a while (or ever). This A–Z guide walks you through every step: asking someone out, choosing where to go, navigating awkward silences, and knowing what to do after the date — all with clarity, warmth, and a little humor.
When You’re Doing Everything “Right”, but Still Not Meeting the Right People
You’ve put yourself out there, followed all the dating advice, and tried everything, but you’re still struggling to meet someone you truly connect with. The good news? You’re not alone, and you’re not failing. This article explores why dating can feel so frustrating, the hidden factors at play, and practical mindset shifts that can help you approach connections with more ease and confidence.
Go Slow to Go Fast
We live in a world that glorifies speed — quick decisions, instant results, and the pressure to always move forward. But what if the real key to success is the opposite? Going slow to go fast is a principle rooted in product development, behavioral economics, and even neuroscience, showing that rushing can actually lead to more mistakes, wasted effort, and missed opportunities. Whether in work, relationships, or personal growth, slowing down allows for better decision-making, deeper connections, and ultimately, faster progress in the long run.
Dodging the Bullet
"I couldn’t put my finger on it, but something just felt off." Ever had that moment when a match seemed promising — until a phone call, a weird message, or an offhand comment made you hesitate?
10 Assumptions That Break Connections
Assumptions can break connections — whether in dating, friendships, or the workplace. Discover the most common relationship myths and how to approach connections with curiosity and flexibility.
How to Recognize and Recover from Dating Burnout
Exhausted by endless swiping and lackluster dates? Dating burnout is real, but it doesn’t have to define your dating journey. Learn how to recognize the signs, recover, and date with renewed energy and intention.
Starting Conversations Without Feeling Awkward
Ever felt like starting a conversation is as daunting as walking into a party wearing the wrong outfit? You’re not alone. Whether it’s a text to someone you’ve matched with or introducing yourself at a gathering, initiating a chat can bring up all sorts of anxiety. But here’s the good news: it doesn’t have to be perfect; it just has to be real. This AMA-style guide tackles your biggest questions about overcoming awkwardness and starting conversations with confidence.