Flirting doesn’t have to be bold, seductive, or smooth. In fact, there are at least four different styles — and most people never realize they can choose. This article introduces each style and invites you to experiment with what feels most like you.

I’d like the suggest that flirting is not something you have to master — that’s like trying to go pro at golf when you’re barely able to mini-golf.

Instead, start where you are (say, “Level 1”) and work your way up (“Level 2”, then “Level 3” and so on).

So, you read Part 1 and understand that flirting doesn’t have to be creepy or performance art. And perhaps you even challenged yourself by smiling at someone a second longer last week.

But… it still feels awkward / weird / uncomfortable.

You’re on the right track!

“Eh… I don’t and can’t flirt.”

That was me… up until a few years ago.

Perhaps you, too, feel like flirting is something other people do, especially if it’s been a while since you last dated anyone.

Part of the problem was my definition.

Dating can stir up all kinds of overthinking — whether you’re waiting for a text, overanalyzing a first date, or debating if you should approach someone new. This guide breaks down what anxious patterns can look like (online and off) and how to practice more grounded, secure habits instead.

The good times in dating often speak for themselves, but the real test of emotional availability is how someone shows up when things get hard. This final piece in the Emotional Clarity series explores what emotional availability really means, how to recognize it, and how to build the kind of connection that lasts.

Emotional labor isn’t inherently bad — it’s the quiet, often invisible work that keeps relationships connected. But when it becomes one-sided, it can quietly wear someone down. This article explores what emotional labor looks like, how to recognize imbalance without blame, and how to move toward more mutual, intentional connection.

Assumptions can break connections — whether in dating, friendships, or the workplace. Discover the most common relationship myths and how to approach connections with curiosity and flexibility.

Expressing romantic interest can be nerve-wracking, but it doesn’t have to be! This guide walks you through subtle and direct ways to show someone you’re interested while maintaining confidence, respecting boundaries, and handling rejection gracefully.

Stuck in “The Greeting Standoff”? Don’t worry — you’re not alone. Breaking the ice online doesn’t have to be awkward or generic. Learn how to craft personalized, engaging openers that spark meaningful connections. Whether you’re tackling a dating app or reconnecting with an old match, these tips will help you stand out and feel confident.

Ever felt like starting a conversation is as daunting as walking into a party wearing the wrong outfit? You’re not alone. Whether it’s a text to someone you’ve matched with or introducing yourself at a gathering, initiating a chat can bring up all sorts of anxiety. But here’s the good news: it doesn’t have to be perfect; it just has to be real. This AMA-style guide tackles your biggest questions about overcoming awkwardness and starting conversations with confidence.

Have you ever found yourself wanting to "break the ice" with someone but are frozen by fear? Whether it’s the worry of rejection, the fear of coming off as creepy, or just not knowing what to say, you’re not alone. These concerns are incredibly common — but they don’t have to hold you back.