Flirting: A Quick-Start Guide

I’d like the suggest that flirting is not something you have to master — that’s like trying to go pro at golf when you’re barely able to mini-golf.

Instead, start where you are (say, “Level 1”) and work your way up (“Level 2”, then “Level 3” and so on).

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Flirting: An Updated Definition

“Eh… I don’t and can’t flirt.”

That was me… up until a few years ago.

Perhaps you, too, feel like flirting is something other people do, especially if it’s been a while since you last dated anyone.

Part of the problem was my definition.

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On Emotional Labor: The Quiet Work That Strengthens or Strains Connection

Emotional labor isn’t inherently bad — it’s the quiet, often invisible work that keeps relationships connected. But when it becomes one-sided, it can quietly wear someone down. This article explores what emotional labor looks like, how to recognize imbalance without blame, and how to move toward more mutual, intentional connection.

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Demystifying Romance

Have you ever been on a date that felt perfectly pleasant, only to hear later, “I just didn’t feel a romantic connection”? It’s a frustrating experience that can leave you wondering — what does that really mean? Romance isn’t about grand gestures but rather small, intentional actions that create meaningful moments. In this post, we’ll break down the 'romantic vibe,' common dating pitfalls, and how you can cultivate stronger connections before the first date even happens.

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The 3 Keys to Building Genuine Connection

Ever leave a conversation feeling truly seen and heard? That magic comes from three simple skills: thoughtful questions, deep listening, and authentic sharing. Learn how to apply these techniques to deepen your connections and make every interaction more meaningful — whether it’s with a date, a friend, or a colleague.

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