Making Connections, Part 2: Where to Meet People in Real Life
So, you’ve got the right mindset. Now where do you actually meet people?
The Benefit of Low-Stakes Interactions with Strangers
It’s nice to smile and have someone smile back. For no reason other than we’re two strangers doing the same thing and acknowledging each other’s existence for a second.
Flirting: A Quick-Start Guide
Flirting isn’t a test you pass or fail. It’s a social skill. And like any skill, we all start out as bumbling beginners.
Flirting: An Updated Definition
Perhaps you, too, feel like flirting is something other people do, especially if it’s been a while since you last dated anyone.
Part of the problem was my definition.
Attraction: What You Can and Can’t Control
Ever wonder why some dates seem to go nowhere, despite your best efforts? Or why someone you thought was “just okay” at first becomes attractive after a few interactions?
Dodging the Bullet
Ever felt that twinge of disappointment when a promising match suddenly fizzles out?
How to Express Romantic Interest
Expressing romantic interest can be nerve-wracking, but it doesn’t have to be!
This guide walks you through subtle and direct ways to show someone you’re interested while maintaining confidence, respecting boundaries, and handling rejection gracefully.
How to Break the Ice (Online)
Online dating can feel like navigating a whole new world. The profiles are there, the matches are made, but then comes the big question: what do you say? How do you stand out in a sea of “Hey” and “What’s up?” Breaking the ice online requires a mix of creativity, thoughtfulness, and just the right amount of effort to spark a meaningful connection.
Starting Conversations Without Feeling Awkward
Ever felt like starting a conversation is as daunting as walking into a party wearing the wrong outfit? You’re not alone. Whether it’s a text to someone you’ve matched with or introducing yourself at a gathering, initiating a chat can bring up all sorts of anxiety. But here’s the good news: it doesn’t have to be perfect; it just has to be genuine.
How to Break the Ice (Offline)
Every connection starts with a small leap of faith — talking to a stranger. Of course, not all strangers will become your friends, and sometimes you might even hope for that stranger to become more-than-a-friend.
The Most Attractive Quality
Confidence is the most attractive quality you can bring to online dating, but it’s not about being loud or perfect. Discover how genuine confidence shows up in everyday interactions, why it matters, and how to recognize and cultivate it.
How to Upgrade Your Dating Profile Photos from Meh to Memorable
Did you know people decide to swipe left or right in under 1 second? Your photos have to stop the scroll — and tell a story.
If your first photo doesn’t make someone pause mid-swipe… it’s not doing its job.