So, you went on a date, thought it went well, and then... nothing. No second date. Maybe they politely declined. Maybe they ghosted. Or maybe you got unmatched after expressing interest. Whether it was a soft no, a hard no, or radio silence, it still stings.

We hear a lot about emotional intelligence these days — but before you get to maturity or communication, it all starts with something simpler (and often overlooked): awareness.

Keep dating the same type of person or ending up in the same frustrating dynamic no matter how much you “work on yourself”? You’re not broken. You might just be stuck in a loop. This article helps you name the pattern, trace its roots, and start making meaningful change.

Think your photos are the reason dating isn’t working? Maybe. But maybe it’s the story behind the swipe. This piece explores what really changed when I stopped tweaking my profile and started noticing my patterns.

You’ve put yourself out there, followed all the dating advice, and tried everything, but you’re still struggling to meet someone you truly connect with. The good news? You’re not alone, and you’re not failing. This article explores why dating can feel so frustrating, the hidden factors at play, and practical mindset shifts that can help you approach connections with more ease and confidence.

As 2024 comes to a close, I’ve been reflecting on what this year has taught me, not just about dating and relationships, but about myself and the journey of building The Date Lab. If I had to sum it up in one word, it would be: Experimentation.

Confidence is the most attractive quality you can bring to online dating, but it’s not about being loud or perfect. Discover how genuine confidence shows up in everyday interactions, why it matters, and how to recognize and cultivate it.

It’s completely normal to want answers. We all want to make sense of what happens, especially when it feels personal.

But when the answers don’t come, it can leave you stuck, second-guessing yourself, and losing momentum.