A lot of people think “good texting” means being witty, fast, charming, cool-but-not-too-cool. But the texting that tends to actually work keeps the momentum going and leads to real connection.

Your dating profile has limited space — don’t waste it on “good vibes only” or “love to travel.”

Does dating ever leave you spiraling: stuck in your head, overthinking a text, or wondering what that look meant?

Ever wonder why some dates seem to go nowhere, despite your best efforts? Or why someone you thought was “just okay” at first becomes attractive after a few interactions?

Keep dating the same type of person or ending up in the same frustrating dynamic no matter how much you “work on yourself”?

Think your photos are the reason dating isn’t working?

Online dating can feel like navigating a whole new world. The profiles are there, the matches are made, but then comes the big question: what do you say? How do you stand out in a sea of “Hey” and “What’s up?” Breaking the ice online requires a mix of creativity, thoughtfulness, and just the right amount of effort to spark a meaningful connection.

Ever felt like starting a conversation is as daunting as walking into a party wearing the wrong outfit? You’re not alone. Whether it’s a text to someone you’ve matched with or introducing yourself at a gathering, initiating a chat can bring up all sorts of anxiety. But here’s the good news: it doesn’t have to be perfect; it just has to be genuine.

Not sold? Or your match is iffy about the idea? Humor me and read on to learn why video calls are worth it (and how to handle objections).

Is your dating profile a shiny, polished car with no fuel — great to look at, but not going anywhere? You’re not alone. Many singles struggle to turn profile views into meaningful connections. Let’s figure out why — and how to fix it.