Flirting doesn’t have to be bold, seductive, or smooth. In fact, there are at least four different styles — and most people never realize they can choose. This article introduces each style and invites you to experiment with what feels most like you.

I’d like the suggest that flirting is not something you have to master — that’s like trying to go pro at golf when you’re barely able to mini-golf.

Instead, start where you are (say, “Level 1”) and work your way up (“Level 2”, then “Level 3” and so on).

“Eh… I don’t and can’t flirt.”

That was me… up until a few years ago.

Perhaps you, too, feel like flirting is something other people do, especially if it’s been a while since you last dated anyone.

Part of the problem was my definition.

Expressing romantic interest can be nerve-wracking, but it doesn’t have to be! This guide walks you through subtle and direct ways to show someone you’re interested while maintaining confidence, respecting boundaries, and handling rejection gracefully.

Ever felt like starting a conversation is as daunting as walking into a party wearing the wrong outfit? You’re not alone. Whether it’s a text to someone you’ve matched with or introducing yourself at a gathering, initiating a chat can bring up all sorts of anxiety. But here’s the good news: it doesn’t have to be perfect; it just has to be real. This AMA-style guide tackles your biggest questions about overcoming awkwardness and starting conversations with confidence.

Have you ever found yourself wanting to "break the ice" with someone but are frozen by fear? Whether it’s the worry of rejection, the fear of coming off as creepy, or just not knowing what to say, you’re not alone. These concerns are incredibly common — but they don’t have to hold you back.