Dating involves a series of decisions. Some are minor and straightforward, others are complicated and emotion-laden.

You’ve put yourself out there, followed all the dating advice, and tried everything, but you’re still struggling to meet someone you truly connect with.

We live in a world that glorifies speed, fast results, quick decisions, immediate gratification.

Ever felt that twinge of disappointment when a promising match suddenly fizzles out?

As 2024 comes to a close, I’ve been reflecting on what this year has taught me, not just about dating and relationships, but about myself and the journey of building The Date Lab. If I had to sum it up in one word, it would be: Experimentation.

Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling truly understood and connected? Those moments of connection don’t happen by accident. Well, sometimes they do, but you can create them by developing three key skills:

Winging it in dating can feel spontaneous and fun, but it often leads to mismatched connections. To answer, “So, what’re you looking for?” confidently, it helps to unpack what you truly want and what you're ready to share.

It’s completely normal to want answers. We all want to make sense of what happens, especially when it feels personal.

But when the answers don’t come, it can leave you stuck, second-guessing yourself, and losing momentum.