There’s a popular idea in modern dating that being sex-positive, confident, and open-minded means sleeping together early — even on the first or second date — is not a big deal.

I’m not here to shame that choice. But for anyone hoping for something meaningful, it’s worth shedding light on what this norm can actually mean.

Do you crave closeness or avoid it altogether? Your attachment style might hold the key to understanding your relationship patterns. Dive into attachment theory to learn how your early experiences shape your dating dynamics and how awareness can lead to stronger, healthier connections.